Build the life you want with support that’s real, affirming, and made for GBTQ men.
with Scott McGlothlen
Sometimes, the first brick is simply the choice to reach out for support.
At First Brick Coaching, I work with GBTQ men who want more from life: to overcome life’s challenges, find balance, and achieve meaningful change. Through a blend of life coaching and non-clinical counseling, we’ll uncover what’s been holding you back, strengthen what’s already working, and create growth that lasts.
Our work can take many forms. Here are a few of the areas where progress often begins.
What Makes This Work Different
I don’t fit the stereotype of a gay life coach, and that’s intentional.
With a social-work background, quite a few tattoos, and no social media presence, I bring an integrative, personal approach to well-being for men who’ve known what it’s like to feel ‘different.’
At First Brick Coaching, you’ll find a space that’s affirming, down-to-earth, and built for GBTQ men who want meaningful transformation - not clichés or quick fixes. It’s honest conversation, practical tools, and a steady partnership toward change that feels grounded and real.
Virtual & In-Person
The Meaning Behind the Name
The name First Brick is more than symbolic. It’s a nod to where courage and transformation begin.
It’s often debated who threw the first brick at the Stonewall Riots in 1969, but many agree that whoever did isn’t as important as what it represents. A single brick was used to shatter the status quo for the LGBTQ+ community, and we can also use that image to break through the habits and patterns we’ve built as individuals.
However, the primary job of a brick isn’t to break things. It’s to build them. It’s the start of a new foundation and a solid structure. And so the first brick can be the first step toward sustainable self-growth.
Client-centered
Private and confidential
Collaborative and supportive
Comprehensive and thorough
Action oriented for the best outcomes
Affordable with quality
Authentic and reliable
Thought-provoking and flexible
Not one-size-fits-all
The First Brick approach is…
Testimonials
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Rob
“I came to Scott when I was making major transitions in home and work, and didn’t have a plan. He helped me to make sense of things, come up with plans, and take care of myself mentally through it all. The journey isn’t quite over, but I’ll be continuing to work with Scott along the way. I can’t recommend him enough.”
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Tonio
"My sessions with Scott have been so vital for the important changes I’ve been making in my life. I struggled with proper guidance and meaningful approaches to personal roadblocks that I was worried I would never overcome. After just a few weeks with Scott, I had already started to feel like I was being given the emotional tools to overcome the physical and mental boundaries I had placed upon myself for so many years.”
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Andrew
“Scott is a great listener who provides holistic and effective techniques to help you address your life goals. He takes great care in making sure you feel comfortable for every session and is a remarkably easy person to talk to.”
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Jeff
“Working with Scott makes me feel deeply seen and heard. He has a wealth of knowledge, and shares exercises and homework to help me move forward. He is empathic and thoughtful, and has made a true difference in my life.”
Curious about what working together might look like?
You don’t have to have it all figured out. That’s what this space is for.
Schedule a free 30-minute consult to ask questions, share what’s on your mind, and see whether my approach feels right for you.